Dr. Kalinda Rose Stevenson, The Bad Bible Detective
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The Power Of Myth To Persuade You To Act Against Your Own Best Interests

Myths are a particularly powerful type of story. Although myth definition in common speech tends to treat the word “myth” as a synonym for an untrue story, the real meaning of myth is much deeper. Myths are the real stories we live by.

In his article, “Myth, Politics and the Erosion of The American Dream,” Paul Stoller gives this myth definition. Read more…

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Posted by Kalinda Rose Stevenson - March 12, 2011 at 10:20 am

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Change Your Life By Going In A Straight Line To Get What You Want

Change Your Life As You Are Going In Circles On Your Life Storywheel makes the point that your life story is lived on a storywheel, which contains multiple storywheels all going around in circles. It emphasizes the cycles of our lives, the ups and the downs, the ascents and the descents as part of every life story.

Success In Life Depends On Focus 

This post considers the importance of straight lines in any effort to accomplish specific goals. Read more…

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Posted by Kalinda Rose Stevenson - February 8, 2011 at 3:23 pm

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Be The Storyteller To Transform Your Life Story

A story is about problems. Up to this point, stories are set in motion by “flat-tire events.”  A flat-tire event is some unexpected problem that you cannot ignore. You have to do something to solve the problem.

Flat-Tire Events Begin Hero’s Journey Stories 

The “flat-tire event” is the foundation of hero journey stories. Something happens in the hero’s ordinary world that forces the hero on a journey to solve the problem. Read more…

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Posted by Kalinda Rose Stevenson - January 31, 2011 at 4:43 pm

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Who Are You In Your Life Story?: Are You Your Only Hope For A Hero Or Are You Waiting For A Savior?

One of my favorite movies is Joe Vs The Volcano, a silly movie with bad reviews, which is also one of the profoundest movies I know. I’ll return to this story in other posts, but right now, I’ll quote only one line from the movie.

Who Will Be A Hero For The Waponis?

Joe has been sent to the island of Waponi Woo to save the people by jumping into a volcano on their behalf to save the island from destruction. It’s all about appeasing the volcano by offering up a willing human sacrifice to the volcano every hundred years. Read more…

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Posted by Kalinda Rose Stevenson - January 25, 2011 at 2:19 pm

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Why Do You Need Stories To Change Your Life?

Why do you need stories to change your life? Recently, someone asked me what I’m doing these days. I said that I’m writing about changing lives with stories. She responded with something like, “Oh, you mean reframing.” Actually, I don’t mean reframing. I really mean “stories.”

What Is Your Definition Of Story?

“Story” is an English word that has multiple meanings. Your definition of story is particularly significant in an era that is as cynical as ours, when the word “story” often refers to something you made up as an excuse for why you didn’t do something you promised to do. That is definitely not what I mean by “story.” Read more…

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Posted by Kalinda Rose Stevenson - January 24, 2011 at 2:52 pm

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Big Dreams To Change Your Life For Grownups

Of all the stories about the hero’s journey, why begin the Story Transformation Process with A Christmas Story? Why not begin with an analysis of Joseph Campbell’s hero’s journey? Why not start with obvious hero’s journey stories, such as “Star Wars” or “Indiana Jones”?

Ralphie, The Ordinary Child

It’s because Ralphie is an ordinary child. There’s nothing much remarkable about Ralphie. He’s an ordinary boy who wants to get an air rifle for Christmas. Ralphie is no boy wizard, with magical powers to transform his life. He doesn’t have a magic wand and a magic cloak, in a school where he learns the magic arts of transformation. He has no reputation that sets him apart, even from birth. Not Ralphie. Read more…

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Posted by Kalinda Rose Stevenson - January 21, 2011 at 1:25 pm

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Who Are You In Your Life Story?: Hero, Bully, Toady, Or Victim?

If you want to change your life, the place to begin is by figuring out who you are in your life story.

The Hero Saves His Family

In one of my favorite movies, A Christmas Story, young Ralphie wants an official “Red Ryder 200-shot Carbine Action Air Rifle” for Christmas.

We find out why Ralphie wants the air rifle in one of his fantasy sequences. Ralphie, dressed in full Hollywood cowboy regalia, saves his family from attack from the dreaded Black Bart and his gang. Read more…

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Posted by Kalinda Rose Stevenson - January 17, 2011 at 12:07 pm

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Ready Or Not, It’s Time To Change Your Life

The most significant feature of a flat-tire event that can change your life is that you’re never ready for it.

Life Is What Happens To You While You’re Busy Making Other Plans

That’s the thing about flat tires. You’re driving along, minding your own business, when suddenly, unexpectedly, your tire goes flat. Maybe it’s a sudden blowout, which can be a frightening experience when you’re behind the wheel. Or maybe it’s less dramatic but no less urgent. While you were on your way to some destination, something happened to one of the tires that was taking you there.  Read more…

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Posted by Kalinda Rose Stevenson - January 14, 2011 at 2:55 pm

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The Human Story In Your Flat-Tire Event

The most powerful metaphorical “flat-tire event” connects you with the essence of the human story.

Human stories evoke universal experiences that transcend any limitations of race, sex, age, geography, social status, and everything else that causes human beings to see themselves as somehow different and separate and better than other people. Read more…

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Posted by Kalinda Rose Stevenson - January 13, 2011 at 6:13 pm

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Would You Keep The Money?: Flat-Tire Events Force To You To Make Life Changing Ethical Decisions

The previous post Is Your Flat-Tire A Life Changing Story Event Or Just An Occurrence?, identified the difference between a “flat-tire event” and a “flat-tire” occurrence.

Another Flat Tire

Let’s consider the life changing potential of a “flat-tire event” with another imagined scenario about you and your flat tire. Read more…

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Posted by Kalinda Rose Stevenson - January 12, 2011 at 4:16 pm

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